Firstly the memorials in the Churchyard at All Saints' Tibenham.
In loving memory of CHRISTOPHER SELF who enetered into rest 4th January 1903 in his 74th year.
The day thou gavest is ended.

In loving remembrance of CHARLOTTE wife of JOSEPH MITSON SELF who departed this life Feb 22nd 1892 aged 57 years.
So he giveth his beloved sleep
and
JOSEPH MITSON SELF November 2 1930 aged 81 years. (verse unreadable)

In affectionate remembrance of EDWARD JOSEPH son of EDWARD AND ELIZABETH SELF who died 10th December 1875 aged 29 years and also of JOHN SELF brother of the above aged 18 months.

In affectionate memory of ELIZABETH SELF who died April 5th 1900 aged 80 years and EDWARD SELF who died 19th August 1874 aged 57 years.

Sacred to the memory of ELIZA the beloved wife of JAMES SELF who died Jan 14th 1880 aged 60 years and also JAMES SELF of Carleton Rode who died November 11th 1882 aged 72 years.

In loving memory of JOHN SELF who died Jan 6th 1885 aged 65 and of MATILDA SELF his wife died January 5th 1885 aged 57 years.

FROM MY COPY OF THE MARRIAGE REGISTER
Christopher Self married Margaretta Bond on 2 October 1780
John Lock married Phillis Self, widow, 21 April 1836.

FROM MY COPY OF THE BURIAL REGISTER.
Christopher Self of Aslacton Sept 23 1819 aged one
Christopher Self Dec 16th 1827 aged 67
James Self April 20th 1833 aged 2
Ann Self Dec 6th 1838 aged 21
Christopher May 2 1839 aged 58
Susannah October 26 1846 aged 67
John March 8 1854 aged 18 months.
John May 11th 1855 aged 6
James Self July 3 1855 aged 25
David October 13 1856 aged 37
Elizabeth Mar 10 1858 aged 82
Mary March 12 1858 aged 66 (entered in pencil in the Burials register it reads "malignant fever prevailed at the above time")
Willam Henry Self May 2 1860 aged 10 months
Henry William Feb 4th 1861 aged 7 months.
Eliza Mar 9th 1862 aged 5
George Sept 21st 1864 aged 3
Sarah Sept 14 1865 aged 44
Christopher April 10 1867 age 11 hours.
Martha Ann June 4 1867 aged 7
Edward Joseph Dec 18th 1873 aged 29
Edward Aug 22 1874 aged 57
Eliza Self of Carleton Rode Jan 11th 1880 aged 60
James Self of Carleton Rode Nov 16th 1882 aged 71

From my copy of BANNS OF MARRIAGES
Thomas Andrews to Sarah Self - October 1830
William Self to Susan Self of West Pottergate Norwich, Sept 1831
Edward Self to Elizabeth Everett Dec 1843
John Self to Maryann Coleman Sept 1846
Christopher Self of Alice Everett April 1848
William Blake to Maryann Self Sept 1852
Thomas Self to Mary Coleman Cook Dec 1866
Joseph Mitson Self to Charlotte Harvey of Tivetshall Sept 1872
William Self to Julia Murfet of Soham, Cambridge. March 1874
Christopher Self widower to Ellen Watson of Carleton Rode Jan 1876

TERRIER, legal document dated 13 June 1834 signed by H. Saunders and Edward Self, Principal Inhabitants.

BUNDLE OF PARCHMENTS, Bastard Court Orders.
1832 Phillis Self widow, and John Lock. Father paid 4s. to Overseers of Poor, 1s.6d to Mother per week and 6d to the baby per week (but we don't know for how many weeks! - but they married in the end!)

RATE BOOKS. dated 24 October 1838
Edward Self leased property from J. Petre - Green Farm.
Charles Self leased property from Robert Briggs - house and gardens Low Road.
Margaret Self leased property from the Churchwardens, presumably the Old Work House, which is now Hastings Hall. - The Street.
Christopher Self leased property from Edmund Bale cottage and garden - Long Row.

From Kelly's Directory of Norfolk 1922.
J. Mitson Self was owner of The Limes Farm, opposite the Church. and sold some land in 1920's for Depwade Council (now South Norfolk District Council) to build council houses on.

J. M. Self was also Churchwarden for many years and a Trustee of the Almshouses which were built practically opposite Limes Farm.